更新时间:2020-09-13

另一个女人:我不知道的事


看这部电影是因为它的影评 吉尔戈登的 由《另一个女人》论自我意识

触动我的几个地方是:

1. Marion的情感迟钝和冷漠 就像他的外科医生丈夫Ben一样 他的朋友形容他 stuffy cold and is a prig 这样的一个人在面对前妻的哭诉时说的是“i accept your condemnation" 毫无情感流露 毫无真实的愧疚和自责

电影中另一处证明Marion情感淡漠或者隔离的地方是她和哥哥Paul的对话 Paul提出 你还记不记得我拿给你看我写的东西的时候 很久以前了 你说了什么吗”

Marion当然不记得 但是她补充了一句 "i probably just trying to be truthful"

她实际说的是“This is overblown, it's too emotional it's maudlin. it may be meaningful to you but to the objective observer, it's so embarrassing".

所以Paul说“So i tried not to embarrass you anymore" (所以我也退出你的生活了)

在Marion的梦境里 她的父亲成为了隔壁心理治疗师的病人 坦诚” Regrets that perhaps i am too severe with my daughter too demanding that i haven't given her much feeling"

尽管Marion从来不这么认为 但是她的父亲 她的哥哥 都如此评价她

2. Marion喜欢上了即将结婚的Ben的伙伴 却不承认 认为他太差劲了 想要挖朋友的墙角 却意识不到自己行为中的不端之处 可是Ben的伙伴却说Marion在拒绝激情 因为她害怕 害怕真爱

后者在多年后的书中致敬她 描写了他们的相识 他说“ I now knew that she is capable of intense passion if one day she would just allow herself to feel"

3. 同样事情也发生在她和童年好友Claire之间 对于Marion来说 她不懂为什么友情变淡了 反正不是自己的原因

Claire解释给了她听 这段对话太喜欢了 抄下来:

C: "Don't do that, don't paly so innocent with me. this isn't the first time it happened. we've been in this situation before where you so innocently wound up causing me to doubt my whole life. We didn't just drift apart I withdrew.

M: "you are not talking about David? i know I never had the slightest interest in him" I never had anything to do with him and I never gave him a shred of encouragement.

C: "That's not true. your conversations were full of subtle flirtations. full of meaningful little looks, little gambit designed to seduce.

M: "That's so untrue and you held that against me?

M: "We never spent a single moment alone. I never had anything to do with him."

C: And I say that you seduced him you just you turned it on whenever he's around. Maybe you didn't even know that you were doing it".

M: "This is nonsense. I mean to have backed off of a close friendship because of some fantasy. But I never accepted his overtures I told him he's going with you and that's out of the question".

C: "But by that time you had what you wanted. I really believe that you may not have realised what you were doing."

M: "That's absurd. I swear to you it was never in my mind, not consciously, or subconsciouly or in any other way."

这句话让我联想到我曾经也和朋友渐行渐远过 我当时的感受和Marion一样 不是我的问题 这是她的选择 并且我也一度自认为自己懂得与朋友的男友保持距离 但是 内心自己是否也有一丝longing 想要得到对方的认可呢?细思恐极 也许我和Marion都不愿意相信自己有邪恶的想法 但是事实是 在别人看来事情也许并非如此 因为我们只听自己想听的 只愿意接受我们想接受的 所以我们的生活 下场如此


另一个女人Another Woman(1988)

又名:缘尽半生

上映日期:1988-11-18片长:81分钟

主演:吉娜·罗兰兹 米亚·法罗 伊安·霍姆 布莱思·丹纳 吉恩·哈 

导演:伍迪·艾伦 编剧:Woody Allen

另一个女人的影评

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